Ceremonies with Soul for Wild Hearts & Offbeat Romantics
Not Your Average Celebrant — And This Won’t Be Your Average Ceremony
A little pagan, a little poetic, a lot of heart. Whether you're marrying again, saying your vows your way, or celebrating a life well lived — I’m here to help you create something unforgettable. Grounded in ritual. Guided by intuition.
Infused with meaning, magic, and you-ness.
1. Ceremonies That Breathe With Life
I craft each ceremony from scratch — never a template, never vanilla. Your story is told through carefully chosen words, symbolic rituals, and (if you like) a touch of incense or crystal magic. 2. Poetry & Personal Magic
As a writer and poet, I bring depth and beauty to your day not just logistics. I can even write bespoke poems or blessings to include in your ceremony, for something truly personal and unforgettable.
3. Rooted in the Elements
Earth, Air, Fire, Water — your ceremony can be built around the energies that feel most aligned to you. Whether you want to include handfasting, elemental blessings, or just honour nature in quiet ways, we’ll weave it in with care.
This is for the seekers, the lovers, the ones who’ve lived a little. For the wild-at-heart and the quietly brave. For the couple who doesn’t want a “Pinterest-perfect” wedding , but a ceremony that actually feels like them.
If that’s you, I’d be honoured to hold space, tell your story, and mark this moment with soul.
My role is to hold ceremony space with care. The Lavender On the day, you’ll feel steady. You’ll know what’s happening, when it’s happening, and that someone reliable is quietly taking care of the ceremony side of things. There’s no pressure to perform, no rushing, no awkward silences. Your words will sound like you. The ceremony will feel sincere, warm, and well-paced. You’ll walk away thinking: that was exactly what we needed. This is for couples who want something personal and meaningful — without fuss. The Rose On the day, you’ll feel confident and relaxed. You’ll have the reassurance that the ceremony has been shaped with care — your story woven through it, your choices reflected clearly, and the tone set just right. There will be moments of lightness, moments of meaning, and space for the people who matter to you. You won’t be second-guessing your vows or wondering what comes next. You’ll be present. Laughing. Breathing it all in. This is for couples who want their ceremony to feel unmistakably theirs The Peony On the day, you won’t be managing anything.You’ll arrive knowing that every detail of the ceremony has been thought through, shaped carefully, and held by someone who understands both people and pressure. If nerves wobble, there’s calm. If something changes, it’s handled.You’ll feel supported, not rushed. Seen, not staged. Free to enjoy the day without worrying about what’s next.This is for couples who want to hand the ceremony over completely — and trust it’s in safe hands.
The Sacred Union
A Sacred Union feels very different from a traditional wedding ceremony.There is no sense of standing in front of your guests while someone reads a script at you. Instead, you are inside the ceremony, experiencing it as it unfolds.It is slower, more intentional and deeply connected. You will smell the incense, see the flame, feel the water blessing your hands and physically take part in the rituals that mark your promises to one another. There may be moments of laughter and absolute joy, but there can also be moments of stillness when the rest of the room seems to disappear and it feels as though there are only the two of you.
Because I work without a script, I am not looking down at pages. I am with you. I guide you through each element, respond to what is happening in the moment and allow the ceremony space to breathe.
Your guests aren't simply watching either. They witness, participate and add their own love and intention to the ceremony.It can feel ancient without being old-fashioned, spiritual without requiring you to follow a particular religion, and sacred without being solemn. See separate page.
When We Meet ...... To create a ceremony that’s just right for you, we’ll chat about a range of topics, including: - your style - your love story - your vows - how you want the feel of your ceremony to be
Whether you're dreaming of a steampunk celebration in a Victorian hall, a barefoot pagan handfasting in the woods, or a moody gothic elopement under the moonlight — I am here for it all.
Definately no judgment just shared love of the unusual.
This is about making your wedding truly yours — a reflection of who you are, how you love, and what you believe in.
What will we talk about when we meet?
I need to find out your right amount of weird. Together we’ll explore:
Your love story — how you met, what you've journeyed through, and what makes your bond unique
The tone and style you want — from deeply sacred to joyfully irreverent, or a perfect mix of both
Rituals, readings, and moments — want to involve family or friends?
Include spiritual or cultural elements? Let’s weave them in.
Vows that feel like you? — whether you want to write your own, blend traditional words, or let me create something from your story.....
I’ll support you every step of the way.As you can see I love a steampunk event , as well as a pagan handfasting or goth wedding - so if you have some alternative ideas then I am here for that!
I want to make your wedding really about you!
How you met, your journey together, and what makes your relationship unique.
•Your hopes and vision for the ceremony, including the tone and style you’d like.
Whether you’d like to include special rituals, readings, or involve family and friends.
You can include ;
Handfasting ,
Ring warming
Water, sand or wine cermonies -
• Your ideas for vows—whether you’d like to write your own, use traditional ones, or find a blend of both I can help you write your own or create them for you from what you tell me.
• Any traditions, cultural elements, or personal touches you’d like to incorporate?
I cant wait to be part of your day.
A Pledge to My Couples
As you prepare for your wedding day, I make this solemn vow—consider it my version of “for better or worse,” minus the worse.
I am committed to ensuring that your ceremony is uniquely yours.
When you place your trust in me, rest assured that your ideas, wishes, and any pre-wedding jitters will be met with patience, enthusiasm, and possibly an emergency chocolate stash.
I promise to respond to your inquiries promptly—whether it’s a simple question or a last-minute “Should we include our dog in the vows?” moment. ( spoiler -the answer is always yes.)
I will never pursue traditions that do not suit you. If you’d rather swap “something old” for “something bold,” or replace formalities with pure fun, I’m here for it.
Every script I craft is tailored just for you—no copy-pasting, no generic templates. Whether you want your ceremony to be deeply sentimental or sprinkled with lighthearted banter, I will make sure it fits your style perfectly.
I will take the time to truly understand your journey together—how you met, the laughter you’ve shared, and perhaps the occasional disagreement over whose turn it is to do the dishes.
Your feedback matters, and I welcome it wholeheartedly.
Together, we will fine-tune every detail, ensuring your ceremony feels just right—like a well-fitted wedding dress, minus the frantic last minute alterations.
I will bring warmth, professionalism, and just the right amount of excitement.
