What do I do?

What I bring to your ceremony either wedding or funeral
 A calm, grounding presence, words that sound like you and ceremony that feels powerful, not a performance.

 A safe space for your love, your story, your way of being.

Ceremonies in wild gardens, forests, beaches, and candlelit barns. Some with tears. Some with laughter.

With crystals, herbs, music, handfasting ribbons, and deeply personal touches.

Each one is different. Each one is sacred.

This is about holding space.

About crafting something that reflects your truth, not tradition for tradition’s sake.

About helping you feel safe, seen, and celebrated — exactly as you are.

I create ceremonies that:
  • Are spiritual but not religious
  • Include rituals, symbolism, nature-based or ancestral elements
  • Are neurodivergent-safe, and built around your values
  • Honour complexity — joy, grief, humour, depth — with warmth and care
Everything I write is for you
Everything we do is collaborative.
And nothing is done just because “that’s what people usually do.”

I offer a free, no-pressure chat to see if we vibe. 
Come as you are. Weirdness welcome.

 If you'd like me to be part of your occasion - Heres how it goes....

 Getting in Touch: 
Start by reaching out to me via phone, text , what's app or email, or just book a meeting through  following the link below.

 Initial chat- 
We can find out if we are a good fit and what you are all about.  
If its a wedding you might have some ideas already to share - cant wait to hear them. You might want to pick a package or go totally bespoke. You might want to meet up before deciding so we can get into some details or see if our energy matches up.
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Our Meeting:
 During our chat, I’ll get to know you and your story, take notes, and discuss your ideas and wishes for the ceremony. I’m here to listen, ask questions, and help bring your vision to life.Once we have had a chat and think we might have the same vibe you can decide what package you want or go tooattally besoke and I can give you a fixed price quote.

Creating Your Ceremony: 
I’ll then write a bespoke ceremony based on our conversation. I’ll share the draft with you so you can review it at your own pace. You’re welcome to suggest changes, and we’ll refine it until you’re completely happy with the final version. 

Support with Readings and Music: 
I can also write or provide suggestions for readings, poems, and music to help make the ceremony even more special.

On the Day: 
I’ll arrive early to make sure everything runs smoothly, because we have got to know each other I will be a friendly face to calm any nerves! 

If you’re ready to take the next step, I’d love to hear from you
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Weddings and Vow renewal or stand alone handfasting. 


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Funerals and Celebrations of life
I create personalised, respectful funeral services, whether held at a crematorium, natural burial ground, or family home. 

From pet funerals to memorial services and celebrations of life, I will support you with empathy, careful listening, and professionalism.

My services include:

  • Guidance on funeral structure and wording
  • Support with writing eulogies and tributes
  • Non-religious and inclusive funeral ceremonies
  • Collaboration with funeral directors and families

I offer the writing and conducting of Wedding, Vow Renewal, Naming and Funeral ceremonies.

Contact Sheryl

Testimonials

     

 A celebrant of character, wit and charm Sheryl provided a very special and professional service for our ceremony. It was unusual in being held inside an ancient stone circle high on the moors. Despite that she rose to the challenge and researched the area thoroughly, leading to an appropriate, informative and entertaining ceremony, with the right balance of humour and dignity. She worked out how to include and involve several other friends and family, including two young girls who were ring bearers and flower girls, and some more mature friends who got to be bridesmaids, torch bearers and drum beaters, meaning everyone had a role to play and felt included in, and significant to, the very bespoke ceremony. She carried out her duties beautifully, and then socialised with everyone and made us all feel special. When she left we felt like she was an old friend and all waved goodbye with a genuine warmth and gratitude. 

Roland Kamsika: Wedding guest
     

 Thank you so much for leading my sisters memorial service with warmth compassion and love. 

Doreen: Retired chef
     

 We asked Sheryl to organise our annual Handfasting Ceremony in Derbyshire as we live overseas and she organised everything seamlessly. We arrive jetlagged the day before the ceremony and everything ran super smoothly. Highly recommend Sheryl for a low stress ceremony 

Sudamala Villa: Wedding guest
     

 We are truly grateful for Sheryl Monk's compassionate and professional service during such a difficult time. She guided us through the process and created a ceremony that respectfully honored our loved one's memory. 

Peter Thompson: Bereaved Family Member